On ‘Find a Grave‘, a large international database of graves, their locations, and their inscriptions, a person may have more than one gravesite and memorial, for memorial markers are not necessarily erected only at the site of the person’s physical remains.
A cenotaph is a marker placed in honour of a person whose remains are elsewhere. There may have been a re-interment somewhere else; a person’s ashes might be scattered after cremation; or a memorial might record the death of someone–usually a family member–who died at a different place.
In the first and second World Wars, though the bodies of Australian soldiers were usually interred where they were killed, or nearby, their names were sometimes inscribed on the tombstone of their family in Australia.
For example, Leslie Leister, the great uncle of my husband, killed and buried in France at the Battle of Fromelles in 1916, has his name on the gravestone of his grandparents in Parkes, New South Wales.

When Leslie and more than 2,000 other soldiers were killed on the attack at Fromelles it was summer and the rotting bodies were quickly buried in mass graves. This service performed to their dead enemies, the Germans sent the dead soldiers’ identity tags through the Red Cross to the Australian authorities so their relatives could be informed. Leslie Leister was on the Red Cross list.
Although many bodies were recovered after the war and reburied in cemeteries of the Imperial War Graves Commission, the bodies at Fromelles were not. Lambis Englezos, an amateur historian from Melbourne, began a project to find the burial pit. Eventually he convinced the Australian government to commission an excavation. The bodies were located and reinterred, with DNA samples taken for identification.
In 2009, the remains of 250 Commonwealth soldiers were recovered from a mass grave near Pheasant Wood in Fromelles, buried after the Battle of Fromelles in 1916. Most of the soldiers have been identified using DNA, forensic science, and historical data. Among those identified in 2010 was Leslie Leister. He is now buried in Fromelles (Pheasant Wood) Military Cemetery. The inscription chosen for his grave there is the inscription on the family grave in Parkes.
Leslie was originally listed by the Commonwealth War Graves Commission as ‘No Known Grave’ and commemorated at V.C. Corner Australian Cemetery and Memorial (Panel No 13).

Leslie is also listed at the Australian War Memorial on panel 161.

Find a Grave distinguishes monuments and cenotaphs with a tag designating these as separate from a grave.
A Monument is a marker or structure erected in honor of a group of people with something in common whose remains lie elsewhere. These structures are generally within cemeteries. These could be national monuments which often include thousands of names. Other times these are structures or headstones that list a smaller number of people with something in common.
The Find a Grave record for Leslie’s listing at the Australian War Memorial is correctly designated as a “monument”; he is remembered on the national listing, one of tens of thousands of names.
The three records refer to one person and should be linked. The primary record should be the grave. Other records should link to it. This is done with hyperlinks. Find a Grave accepts only hyperlinks within its own website.
I edited the record at Parkes to show it was a cenotaph, not a grave, and also linked to the other two records. I also edited the record for the Australian War Memorial linking to the grave and the memorial at Parkes.
To do this, I opened the Edit Memorial page, scrolled down under Gravesite Details and opened ‘Additional grave marker options’. I used the toggle switch to label the memorial as a Cenotaph.
The three memorials are NOT managed by me; I will wait to see if my Find a Grave edits are accepted by the people who managed them.
Related posts and further reading
Wikitree: Jack Walsh (Whiteman) Leister (1894 – 1916)
Find a Grave help pages
Find a Grave memorials for Leslie Leister:
Australian War Memorial Memorial #249815979
Fromelles Memorial #56348349
Parkes Memorial #123550859
Virtual War Memorial Australia (VWMA) is a digital commemorative platform for all those who have served Australia in times of conflict. The Virtual War Memorial records memorials and monuments where service people are remembered. Leslie Leister’s profile: https://vwma.org.au/explore/people/164988. Leslie is remembered on the following memorials:
Parkes Methodist Church Roll of Honor (unveiled 1916),
Parkes Methodist Church Roll of Honour (unveiled 1917),
Fromelles Association record for Leslie Leister: https://fromelles.info/soldiers/4840-acting-corporal-leslie-leister/